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Friday, February 8, 2013

With My Whole Heart #5 - Gossip


{{Am I loving God with my WHOLE heart?}}

Q: DO YOU ENGAGE IN AND/OR STRUGGLE WITH {GOSSIP}? - Yes or No?
What do I mean? Do you constantly find yourself discussing the affairs/business of others?  Yes or No? ... At work, do you find it a struggle to stay out of the office gossip? Yes or No?  Are you drawn to drama? Yes or No?

[GOSSIP] is defined as: “Casual or unconstrained conversation or reports about other people, typically involving details that are not confirmed as being true.”

>>>>If you answered "no" to the above question(s) - please share how it is you are managing to do so. Share anything that has blessed you in this area. In your quest to love God with your whole heart, what has helped you to remain committed in these areas?
>>>>If you search your heart, and find your answer to be "yes" in any area. Please share you struggle. Let’s become better – together. I am positive you are not alone in your struggles and the purpose here is to become better. As you share, you will provoke dialogue that will bless not only yourself, but your sisters as well. Let us get to the HEART of the matter, together, and may GOD be glorified.

The following scripture(s) speak to the HEART of the matter (as well, I have listed additional verses at the end; I urge you all to take the time to search the word for yourselves. Look these scriptures up, write them on your heart, and apply them to your life):


Notice the harm caused by gossip. Next time you open your mouth, consider what you are saying and apply Ephesians 4:29 to it. Is what you are about to say (spiritually) beneficial to the one who will hear it? Or is it unwholesome, worthless, and/or evil? Will your words cause life or death? 

{Ephesians 4:29 Amplified}
 Let no foul or polluting language, nor evil word nor unwholesome or worthless talk [ever] come out of your mouth, but only such [speech] as is good and beneficial to the spiritual progress of others, as is fitting to the need and the occasion, that it may be a blessing and give grace (God’s favor) to those who hear it.
{Proverbs 19: 16}
A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he who breathes forth lies shall perish. 
{Proverbs 21: 23}
He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from troubles. 
{Leviticus 19: 16}
You shall not go up and down as a dispenser of gossip and scandal among your people, nor shall you [secure yourself by false testimony or by silence and] endanger the life of your neighbor. I am the Lord. 
{Proverbs 20: 19} 
He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets; therefore associate not with him who talks too freely. 
{1 Timothy 5: 13} 
Moreover, as they go about from house to house, they learn to be idlers, and not only idlers, but gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not say and talking of things they should not mention. 
Also see: Psalm 34:13, 1 Peter 4:15, Proverbs 16:28

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Tuesday, February 5, 2013

SINGLES & WIVES!! Sacred Studies - Week ONE!

 
{SACRED SINGLES of SE!} - WEEK ONE // Feb 1-8th // Reading CHAPTER ONE //
* * * Once you have read the chapter, visit THIS post and ... ****
EVERYBODY who is participating, will do {4} things EACH WEEK:

1. READ one chapter/week (Friday-Sun).
2. VISIT THE CORRESPONDING GROUP POST ON MONDAY (a new thread will be posted EACH week on MONDAY) to discuss the chapter (challenges, response to the reading, what you are learning, how you are applying, encourage one another, etc). Check back throughout the week! See what your SISTERS are saying, participate in the dialogue, and encourage one another!
3. ANSWER THE QUESTIONS at the end of each chapter, record responses in your journal AND share HERE. To stay organized, each day we will focus on ONE or TWO specific questions, which are listed by day-of-the-week, below.

"Real Ladies! Real GOD! Real Talk! - Equipping Real Walk!" - Particpate in our INTERACTIVE dialogue!